STOP BEATING UP ON THE MEN SO MUCH!!!???

SoulfulDetroit.com FORUM: Archive - Beginning May 30, 2003: STOP BEATING UP ON THE MEN SO MUCH!!!???
Top of pageBottom of page   By meudsa9e (66.73.8.135) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 08:11 am:

...So, if U want 2 B the man U have 2 wear the crown huh? Ok, nothing wrong with that...In this day and time, women are the bread winners, single parents, head of household, holding down 2 or 3 jobs etc. It's a new day...some of us R wearing the crown (as King & Queen). Some of us R wearing the crown with & without a male figure N our lives...BUT we sometimes allow ourselves 2 fall N that kind of situation. Most of us don't know the kind of man we're getting involved with when we meet him. We know what it takes 2 create a child (it takes 2). The man (our parents & grandparents) used 2 B the bread winners, head of household etc. due 2 the fact that a lot of them didn't finish school, and it was their job 2 support the family. We women dress up, fix up, to go out and meet SOMEONE, but we must B very careful of who that someone is. Make friends and take it from there, not have sex first... and know nothing about the man, and then when his true colors show, (Duh, Duh), he's no good, lazy, don't work etc, U must remember how U met him. He was dress up, smelling good, talking stuff, etc. (didn't know anything about him except what he told U). If U take a good look, some women R the same way, wanting someone 2 pay the bills (he didn't make), take care of babies (he didn't make). Women cheat, Lie, some don't work etc. No intent to beat up on the ladies either, but it' the truth. No one talks about that, no one makes songs about that, am I right?
Give the (good) guys a break, talk about the good Men sometimes. I like the sone "Do Right Man", but take a moment and turn it around "Do Right Woman". So just B careful of who U call Your MAN and make sure he is one! and the same 2 the men, don't let the good looks/sex fool ya!!!

Top of pageBottom of page   By Ritchie (62.254.0.9) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 08:52 am:

Yeah - I'd like a break!

Since their mother walked out on us seven years ago, I've brought up my two children alone, while she has enjoyed a cosy, stress-free living with her new man. She plays 'happy families' with my son and daughter when it's convenient, and buys their loyalty with guilt-edged presents. It's not always the men who are the bad guys....

Top of pageBottom of page   By Vickie (205.188.209.38) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 11:23 am:

I must say...
Being a single woman with no time to date..(literally none)
I think some of the finest, noble, honest men are on this forum..
Don't give up guys.. the right one is out there...until then don't waste your time on the wrong one...
To all the brilliant guys here whether you're single or not..
Lots of love from me....Ritchie you're doing good my friend..

Vickie :)

Top of pageBottom of page   By STUBASS (152.163.188.68) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 12:28 pm:

ALL WORK AND NO PLAY VICKIE...YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY!!!...HEY... WHO AM I TO TALK...MY DOG IS ALL PISSED OFF THAT HE'S NOT GOING TO THE "FUNK BROTHERS" CONCERT WITH ME...TRY EXPLAINING THAT ONE TO A 10 YEAR OLD CHOW CHOW!!!...STU

Top of pageBottom of page   By Vickie (64.12.97.7) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 12:34 pm:

Ahhhhhhh Stu

my work is play - I love, love what I am doing right now :)

Vickie

Top of pageBottom of page   By STUBASS (64.12.106.44) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 01:55 pm:

PLAY ON VICKIE...PLAY ON!!!...STU(DULLBOY)BASS

Top of pageBottom of page   By SisDetroit (68.42.209.170) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 03:58 pm:

So this is the "Do Right Man" thread.

Vickie, since I'm in my 10th life, last leg, I think I will play, listen to music, and have fun. Love is the name of the game. And I see StuBass is enjoying every bit of it. (LOL)

Top of pageBottom of page   By Vickie (64.236.243.31) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 04:32 pm:

Amen Sis...


Vickie

Top of pageBottom of page   By Ralph (209.240.198.62) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 04:44 pm:

Somebody want to explain to me what this thread is all about???

Confused in Monterey

Top of pageBottom of page   By Blondie (64.236.243.31) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 04:50 pm:

Dear Confused,

Welcome to the forum..

Sincerely,
Blondie in Burbank

Top of pageBottom of page   By Ralph (209.240.198.62) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 04:56 pm:

Thank you Blondie. How about dinner and a movie?

Top of pageBottom of page   By fayette (152.163.188.68) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 05:07 pm:

stubass take me and my siberian husky(suzy) with
you guys

fayette
(your other angel)

Top of pageBottom of page   By Dick Gamble (216.93.77.83) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 05:10 pm:

Stu,man take the chow to the Funk Brothers concert. Can't you tell your dogs got good taste in music. But a babushka on him and take him as your date....

Signed:
Befuddled in Black River

Top of pageBottom of page   By STUBASS (205.188.209.38) on Friday, April 11, 2003 - 09:40 pm:

FAYETTE: IS YOUR HUSKY A BOY OR A GIRL...PUPPY IS A NEUTERED BOY...BUT STILL LIKES GIRLS!!!...BEFUDDLED DICK:...GOOD IDEA...AND PUPPY LOOKS A LOT BETTER THAN SOME OF THE GIRLS I'VE DATED...LAST ONE... I HAD TO ROLL DOWN THE WINDOW SO SHE COULD STICK HER HEAD OUTSIDE!!!...STU


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