By DyvaNaye (205.188.209.13) on Wednesday, March 24, 2004 - 04:23 am:

HEY SDF:
There are some songs that I call 'beggin songs' or Co-dependant music...you know, that type of song were the man is beggin' to get back in the woman's life and vice versa...or the songs that make you shake your head because you been there and done that or you know someone who is experiencing it...(and they just play that damn record to death..)You can include 'heartbreak' music here...(yours or someone else...)
What are serious co-dependant songs that have made an impact on yours or someone you know life?
Go ahead and shout that person out...you suffered long enough...lol...

Here are some that have graced my presence(one way or another):

Tired of Being Alone - Al Green
I Stand Accused- Issac Hayes
You Ought To Be With Me - Al Green
Aint No Way- Aretha
Never Loved A Man - Aretha
Cigarettes and Coffee - Otis
Imagination - E/W/F
Lovers Holiday E/W/F
Write A Letter - Chilites
Insatiable - Prince
Crazy You- Prince
Misty Blue - Dorothy Moore
Ill Be Doggone - Marvin
Til Tomorrow - Marvin Gaye
Victim - Candi Staton - I had to shout this becasue I have a girlfriend who was getting a divorce the 'same time' as her mother and the BLASTED this song...

more later
'Your turn now...' - Otis Redding

By Nosey (205.188.209.13) on Wednesday, March 24, 2004 - 10:04 am:

DyvaNaye: Anything by Tyrone Davis. LOL!

By KevGo (64.115.26.80) on Wednesday, March 24, 2004 - 11:35 am:

Need To Belong To Someone - Isaac Hayes
Never Can Say Goodbye - Jackson 5
Oh Girl - Chi-lites
Baby I Need Your Lovin' - Four Tops
Beggin' - Frankie Valli & the Four Seasons
(Loneliness Made Me Realize)It's You That I Need - Temptations
Why Me - Keith Sweat (among other tunes!!!)

Kevin Goins - KevGo

By Eli (68.236.53.71) on Wednesday, March 24, 2004 - 12:11 pm:

Take me back--Anthony & the Imperials
Baby come back home-JJ Barnes
Valerie- Jackie & the Starlites
My Vow-Colly Williams
Rescue me-Fontella Bass
Beg me-Chuck Jackson
I dont wanna cry-Chuck Jackson
Give up the funk(sublimenal begging)-Parliament

By R&B (138.238.41.118) on Wednesday, March 24, 2004 - 02:37 pm:

PLEASE STAY,THE DRIFTERS..EACH DAY I CRY A LITTLE,EDDIE KENDRICKS..I NEED A CHANGE,THE MIRACLES..SPEAK HER NAME,WALTER JACKSON..PLEASE RETURN YOUR LOVE TO ME,THE TEMPS..PROVE IT,ARETHA..COME BACK,THE STAIRSTEPS..PRETTY LITTLE BABY,MARVIN.

By Soul Sister (65.43.144.46) on Wednesday, March 24, 2004 - 03:33 pm:

Beg Me-Chuck Jackson
Ain't Too Proud To Beg- DR & The Tepmptations
Doggin' Me Around-Jackie Wilson
Please Please Please-James Brown
Prisoner Of Love-Ditto
Try Me-Ditto
Begging you Please-The Jive Five
Never, Never-The Jive Five
I'm The One Love Forgot-"Smitty"The Manhattans
Alone On New Years Eve- Ditto
Give Him Up-Ditto
Til You Come Back-Ditto
Going Out Of My Head-Little Anthony & Imperials
I Miss You So- Ditto
If I Remember To Forget- Ditto
Baby Baby Please-Timothy Wilson
Please Baby Please-The Realistics
Your Daddy Wants His Baby Back-Derek Martin
You Better Go-Derek Martin
What Would You Do-Walter Jackson
I Can't Stand For You To Leave-Joe Valentine
Never Let Me Go-The VanDykes
Never Let Me go(different song)-Dinah Washington
Stay-Maurice Williams & The Zodiaks
Stay With Me Forever-Linda Jones
What Have I Done-Linda Jones
What Sin(Have I Committed?)-Jimmy Scott
Don't Take Your Love-Jimmy Scott
Please Be Kind-Jimmy Scott

Thats all just too TOO many fit this catagory!!!!!!!
S.S.

By Soul Sister (65.43.144.46) on Wednesday, March 24, 2004 - 03:34 pm:

OOH Baby Baby-The Miracles
Had to add it!
S.S.

By DyvaNaye (205.188.209.13) on Wednesday, March 24, 2004 - 10:02 pm:

Soul Sister: My Mother KILLS 'What Sin Have I COmmitted'...she is a major Little Jimmy Scott fan...My sister was too. She used to say to me 'He sounds like a woman if you close your eyes!'. Never the less, that is a BAD jam...

Thanks for your hoping and wishing and praying...Im feeling stronger everyday...' :-)
DyvaNaye

By CORNBREAD (66.185.84.74) on Wednesday, March 24, 2004 - 10:10 pm:

Love Committee ... Darling come back home

By DyvaNaye (205.188.209.13) on Wednesday, March 24, 2004 - 10:18 pm:

Distant Lover - Marvin
Please Dont Change Me now - Dells
Everybody Needs Love - Gladys/Pips
Do YouLove Me Just A Little Honey? Gladys/Pips
If I HAve to Move A MOuntain - J-5
If I Were Your WOman - GK/P
Make Her the Woman You Come Home TO - GK/P
Give Her UP- Smokey
Give My Love A Try - Linda Jones

By Juicefree20 (68.161.31.21) on Friday, March 26, 2004 - 12:43 am:

Otis Redding: Let Me Come On Home, Open The Door, Pain In My Heart, These Arms Of Mine, Don't Leave Me This Way, I've Been Loving You Too Long, My Lovers Prayer, I Love You More Than Words Can Say

The Temptations: Please Return Your Love To Me, Since I Lost My Baby, I'm Losing You, I Wish It Would Rain, It's You That I Need

Lenny Williams: Cause I Love You

Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes: I Miss You. The Love I Lost

Dorothy Moore: Misty Blue
Atlantic Starr: Losin' You, Send For Me
AWB: Cloudy
Timi Yuro: Hurt
Jackie Wilson: Lonely Teardrops, I've Lost You
Surface: Let's Try Again
Tavares & The Four Tops: Remember What I Told You To Forget
Tavares & Hall & Oates: She's Gone
Tavares: I Can't Go On Living Without You
Freddie Scott: Are You Lonely For Me
Rose Royce: I'm Going Down
The O'Jays: Hurry Up, Come Back, Brandy (Ok, so it's about a dog, he missed her), Who Am I
New Birth: It's Been A Long Time, Dream Merchant
BBD: When Will I See You Smile Again
The Moments: Sunday, Pocketful Of Heartbreaks, I'm So Lost, Gotta Find A Way
The Dramatics: In The Rain, I Can't Get Over You
LTD - Where Did We Go Wrong
Levert: I'm Still, Pop, Pop, Pop, Goes My Mind
Donnie Elbert: Can't Get Over Losing You, Where Did Our Love Go
Otis Leavill: I Need You
David Ruffin: My Whole World Ended, I Miss You, Just Let Me Hold You For A Night (also by Choice Four)
Eddie Kendricks: Darling Come Back Home, Girl You Need A Change Of Mind, Each Day I Cry A Little
Rick James: Teardrops
Rick James & Teena Marie: Fire And Desire
The Jackson Five - Who's Loving You, Maybe Tomorrow
The Isley Brothers: This Old Heart Of Mine, I Need You So
Al Green: For The Good Times, Back Up Train, Tired Of Being Alone, Call Me
The Escorts: Look Over Your Shoulder
Deniece Williams: It's Gonna Take A Miracle
The Spinners: How Could I Let You Get Away, We Belong Together
Terry Huff & Special Delivery: The Lonely One, I Destroyed Your Love
Blue Magic: Stop To Start, When Ya Coming Home
The Delfonics: Can't Get Over Losing You, Without You, I Gave To You, Think It Over, The Delfonics Theme (How Could You-Voc Version)
The Dells: Thought Of You A Little Too Much, The Love We Had, I Miss You

Well, this is a start anyway!
Juice

By DyvaNaye (205.188.209.13) on Friday, March 26, 2004 - 01:55 am:

juice: phew!

Maybe Tomorrow is my j-o-i-n-t!!!

Darlin' Nikki - Prince

Lately - Stevie Wonder

All Is Fair In Love - Stevie Wonder

Get It Together - J/5

Baby Baby Dont Cry - Smokey

Stop Look Listen -Stylistics

By DyvaNaye (205.188.209.13) on Friday, March 26, 2004 - 01:57 am:

...oh! and Natural High -Bloodstone
Just My Imagination - Tempts.

Serious co-dependancy...they dont even KNOW the women they want to get with. LOL.

By Soul Sister (65.43.144.46) on Saturday, March 27, 2004 - 03:27 pm:

DyvaNaye;
Hope your feeling stronger today.
I'd love to hear your mother singing "What Sin?", its my fave. of Jimmy's King 45's.
So your Mom & Sister are big Jimmy fans, thats super!! I guess you've heard alot of Jimmy's records over the years. Did they read the book and see the documentries? Have they seen him perform LIVE in N.Y.? We'll be at "The Iridium" on Broadway August 31 - Sept. 5th.
Take good care of yourself DN.
S.S.

By DyvaNaye (209.212.74.212) on Monday, March 29, 2004 - 11:59 am:

Yes they are HUMONGOUS Jimmy fans...and they have seen him only on tv. We all have see the documentary that came on PBS...really good, and emotional. I look forward to the live performance...are the tickets on sale yet? ..and then I can get to meet you! That would be great!

God Bless and thank you again for the well wishing. I am still humbled by the sentiments that people send me :-)

DyvaNaye

By Soul Sister (65.43.144.46) on Monday, March 29, 2004 - 01:06 pm:

Hey DyvaNaye;
So glad your doing so much better! That is the most important thing Dyva.

Re: Iridium...It would be great to meet you and take photos of your Mom with Jimmy As far as The Iridium goes check out their web-site, I do know that they are already posting the dates with a photo and bio of Jimmy for Aug. 31 -Sept.5. They have a nice site. We'll talk more by email when we get closer to the date too (smile).

Take it easy,
S.S.

By DyvaNaye (209.212.74.212) on Monday, March 29, 2004 - 03:08 pm:

Thank You S.S....consider it a 'date'. My mom will be thrilled. :-)I will check the site.

Like the EAGLES classic song: 'Im takin' it easy...'

Cant wait to meet you. You send such positive vibes. :-)